TEEMA WRITES: YOU WANT TO MARRY ME? GASKIYA SE KA HADU (PART 2)



Men who distinguish clearly between DEEN and CULTURE! Now I'm not saying kada kiyi hakuri da mijin ki... No man is perfect.. There's a limit to what everyone can bear... Amma mazan Arewa, an shagwaba su dayawa ai.
                 
Shagwaba tayi yawa sun mai da kyautatawar da ake yi musu dole. A woman is a 'zinah' an ornament, not a cook, a nurse, a janitor or a sex machine. She is your wife, Allah called her 'sahiba' in the Qur'an, your companion, treat her thus. Now she does the cooking and cleaning to fill her slate of good deeds, ta samu yardar Allah, and kai oga you take her for granted and even say 'shiyasa na auro ta'. Zaka koma islamiyya. Those old ladies that go about feeding you with crap from Shakespearen years, telling you 'ba'a sake wa mace, zata raina ka', 'you have to remind her that you are the man'... NEWS FLASH! Do things right and she'll never forget in the first place.
'Dole ta zauna dani ai, maza basu da yawa'. Stay there! Kuna nan birjik, kamar jamfa a Jos. It all boils down to a lady's wants, and needs. Wata dogo take so, wata sai mai gemu. I'm all for love, I'm a sucker for smiles and laughter. Wata, ita kam ba soyayya zata ci ba, gaki ga Malam Umaru ai. Ki mai wanki da guga, ki mai girki da kwalliya ya dawo yace 'you've been home all day doing nothing' simply because this Tuesday night, his dinner is 5 minutes late...
               
We can do it, ladies. Resist the pressure and keep a good attitude whilst the wait for the mister gets even realer every day. Na kirki yazo? Kai shi gida yar uwa. 'Inaaa, babu inda zai je babu Benz ko Rolex'. See the girl da akeyi wa gorin aure oo, taqi ustazu mai gemu da khamsu salawat sai mai wando kan duwawu. 'All that glitters ain't gold' is an old saying that still doesn't digest properly amongst humans. Yana aiki a Kano, kince Abuja zaki zauna... Yace ayi walimar sunna, kince sai anyi dinner. 'how else do I impress and or oppress my friends with a sunnah wedding?' 'tab... Dole ya nemo kudi, Maigaskiya zan dauko ya cancara min hoto'. Ni Fatima zan ga wanda zai wa Maigaskiya hoto ai. Set your priorities right and don't let the dust on Instagram blind you. Fancy weddings, horrible marriages. Allah ya kare mu.
Anjima za'a ganmu with broken hearts, our poetic skills on a 100, saying 'maza aljanu ne, mayaudara'. Dissipate the pity party sister.
IF MEN LIE, WOMEN ENJOY BEING LIED TO.
               
Bad marriage? Fix what you can.. Beyond repairs? Tell Rabbi, and let Him take charge. Addu'au saiful mu'meen. Kowa kika gani, da yadda Allah ya qaddara mata.
               
   

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  1. Ahhha thumbs up my fati kin fada musu gaskia. Allah yasa su gane mazanmu na Arewa kuwa Allah ya shiryesu,iyayen mata ku daina shagwaba mazan yayanku.

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