Laya hello,
My life as i know it is over. nashi ga uku na lalace!!
ya zan yi da rai na.
i swear i am the best wife to my husband.
ba abin da ya nema ya rasa.
let me tell you a bit about the relationship
A few years ago my friend said wai wani cousin din ta Garba saw me da na je gidan su and he wants to see me again.
na ce no please i dont do garbas Abeg!!! i am more Abubakars and sadiqs
lol dan i need to protect my image!!!
ta ce ke dalla kindai san sunnan shi Abubakar ko!
na ce ok.
so a week after su ka zo da garbati!!!
my dear garba was more of garbati!!!!
up until that moment ban taba dating black ba bare charcoal black.
garbati dai kamar dan south sudan!! na ce mata ke haba hadiza how far na!!! ya fuskar ba annuri!!!
tace Aisha get to know him walahi he is an amazing person!!!
TOH let me try
Garbati ALLAH ya mishi baiwar naci!!!! calls every minute.
i just friend zoned him!!!
har labarin samari na nake bashi!!!
he would call, litsen har da bani shawara!!!
we gossiped about every thing and every one lol
when I break up with a boy friend garba was always there.
ze zo ya dauke ni mu je dinner na sha kuka na a mota.
every time he keeps saying this guys don't deserve you.
months went by, by now ni da garba are best friends!!! we see every day!! he passes by my office every day takes me to lunch a wani resturant kusa damu.
ke haba i started falling!!!!
falling hard!!!
kawai se mafarkin GARBA
na fara damin freinds din na garba this garba that!!!
but my dilemma a lokacin nan is how to tell him that i am madly in love with him!!!
na rasa ta inda zan bullo mishi.
so na nutsu na tsara wata yar wasika, wrote it down on a piece of paper and after lunch the next day na bashi.
please don't open it se ka koma office ka zauna!!!!
ok amma what is it!!!
G ka je zaka gani
yana tafiya gabana ya fara faduwa na yi sauri na sa waya ta a flight mode!!!
kar ma ya same ni lol!!!
gaba ki daya na rasa me yake min dadi!! na kasa zaune na kasa tsaye!!!
in the evening na gaji na kunna waya ta haba text per second per second!!!!
i got 10 messages from Garba!!!
"ta nabiyu yau kin gama min komai!!!!"
see i call him garbatiti and he calls me ta nabiyu ( matar annabi)
that's how we stared the most amazing, beautiful relationship i have ever had!!!
dama best friend di na ne so every thing just fell into place!!!
when i introduce him to my friends they say ke aisha this isn't you!!! nace ba za ku gane ba haka na ke san shi in his blackness lol
A few months passed by aka zo akayi gaisuwa. aka sa rana.
we had a low key wedding. nothing over the top.
daurin aure and then a cocktail with friends and family.
we flew a week later to ghana!!!!
Ghana has some beautiful beaches and we had the times of our lives!!!
i got pregnant almost immediately.
i gave birth to muhammad 9 months 2 weeks later lol. i was secretly praying for my baby to take after my skin color shallow i know lol
any whu!!! my baby came out sak G
kamar an tsaga kara!!! but at least da dan hasken sa
life is beautiful
Garba fantastic
beautiful life dai!!!
fast foward 4 years!
Garba has been acting weird.
he is my best friend so na san shi in and out!!! ko cikin shi ciyo yake from his facial expression zan gane ciki ne ke ciwo ko kai!!! i am not even joking that's how bad i know him!!!!
he started being secretive.
there was a day, na dau wayar shi, waya ta ba caji, i wanted to call my mom, kawai garbati da yayi wani irin super se a kai na yayi sauri ya karbe wayar shi!!1
nace toh!!! we made it into a joke mu ka ringa dariya, and i jokingly said oh you've got some thing you hiding!!!! and surprisingly he said oh my darlyn you would know when the time is right!!!
i said 'is it a girl"
he smiled sheepishly and left the room!!!
Wayyo ALLAH na na shiga uku!!!
my heart just stopped beating or so it seams!!!
every thing turn black walahi se wani duhu!11
i quickly called his cousin who i havent called in like for ever!!!
hello!!! Hadiza kwana biyu, how now" ai kamin ta answer nace
"have you heard any thing a gida about Garba" kamar me fa
kamar another woman kishiya topic!!!
"kishiya kuma"
yes i think Garba is seeing some on!!!
gaskiya ban ji komai ba!!!
ok toh please check and get back to me!!!!
a few days have gone by and har na dan manta ina ta hidimar gabana,
yau sun fita da muhammad, they just came back and da na je yi mishi wanka, my son started talking.
mama yau munje wurin friend din baba!!! ta bani sweets and biscuits amma baba yace kar na fada miki!!!
my heart cut!!!
gallons of sweat!!!!
" muhammad so baba's friend where did you go and see her?"
wurin pizza!
and we had ice cream too.
fara ce ko baka muhammad?
very white mama and she has looong hair har na taba!
no no this is too much i have to talk to garba or what ever he calls him self!!!!
i walked into da parlour yana kallon TV
oh so you now take my son on dates!!!
what!!!
yes you heard me!!!
who told you?
wa ze gaya min ? ALLAHN MUSURU GARE NI
kai!!! whats happening!!!
see i am tired, kai na na ciwo, i cant do this tonight!!! Yes i am dating some one are you happy now?
ya tashi ya tafi daki!!!
HEART ATTACK!!!!!
as i write this to you its around 2 am na kasa bacci na kasa cin abinci na kasa komai na sa garba a gaba ina kallon shi!!!!
ya zanyi Dan ALLAH
please is there any one going thru this or can some one share how they got thru moments like this!!!
And i dont understand why he wouldnt be polite and sit me down and talk to me, not that i would litsen but dont i desevrse it? i am his bloody wife for GOD's sakes!!!1
Help please !!!
Is there anything wrong with him adding a wife or is it a sin or what exactly is your problem. You just want to give yourself heart attack. Arewa girls and soyayya that's all they know. Abeg shift.
ReplyDeleteBetter plan on how to make progress in your life financially to take care of yourself better and your son. Add meaning to your life or add to other peoples life. You can even be a writer with this story of your life. Not every time love, sometimes lifestyle.
Its not the end of the world. Let him marry. Nothing will happen. Don't just live in same roof.
Heeeey!chineke!(both hands on my head), wallahi some ladies sun rakomu ne suyi kallo, hadiza ma Nada kirki danice hadiza zakisha mamaki wallah Bcz ol dis while baki tashi Kiran dangin miji ba sai da kikaji zancen kishiya. Let me advice matan aure in general, when ever kikaga mijinki ya fito miki da wani halin daba ki sanshiba Toh first u have to calm ur self down kiyi bincike da kanki ba tare da kin saka kowa ba hankali kwance zaki fahimci komai Amma daga hankali bazai kaiki ko'ina ba sai gidan wahala. Ni Allah Layla kinma ban Daria daga Jin Anje shan ice cream sai ki dauki kishiya ki dorawa kanki dis is a capital NO idea. Call cousin din oga Asap tell her that wasa kike mata dama kawai wata gardama kuke (tongue out) Amma ya wuce find something da zaki fadamata ki ceci girmanki Dan ya Riga ya zube. Allah ya shiryemu.
ReplyDeleteWhat you deserve or how you should be told is irrelevant here. If it's true, face it in good faith and if other wise, alhamdulillah. Communication is key in every relationship. If he's not willing to talk about it then put him through with an open mind ba hayaniya ba. In kin yi zafin kai you are on your own coz Garbati baya taki yanzu (not that ya daina son ki) but trust me, ba ki gabansa for now, he's a man and that's the ugly truth. Now it's your turn to be a woman and play it well for the sake of your family.There is nothing you can be told to make you feel ok but the truth is you will be ok. It all depends on you as an individual on how strong and tolerant you can be. However, if you followed these few tips they might work for you. Firstly, be more prayerful and do a lot of dhikr, Allah said in the Qur'an " for without doubt in remembrance of Allah do hearts find satisfaction " I believe you need that. Figuratively, close your eyes and ears. Don't listen to what people have to tell you else you will be confused. Kar ki sa ido on what's happening or what he's up to else you'll cry every day and lose sleep at night, before you know kin zama pagal�� ( mahaukaciya) keep your self busy on more important things that will occupy your mind from horrible thoughts and whenever you remember ko in gaban ki ya fadi recite " lahaula wala quwwata illa billah " repeatedly. Last but not the least, gayu! My sister reform and transform yourself with all your energy....it will make you feel really good about yourself and maybe even confused him �� Keep calm, in kin yi hakuri zai zo ya wuce kina kallo. One day you may even laugh about it but sai kin yi hakuri ba Kadan ba. If you let her share your husband don't you ever let her steal your best friend! You need him! Trust me you do! In kin yi fushi kin bar mata komai wallah I can assure you ba shiga uku ba nan gaba Zaki shiga goma ma and you won't realize until it's too late. Allah ya baki hakuri ya sawa zuciyar ki sanyi ya kuma baku zaman lafia da fahimtar juna. Much love ❤️
ReplyDeleteDear poster, I assure u millions of women go thru the same if not worse, u have an upper hand here because u guys are best of friends, NEVER EVER let anything ruin that friendship, u have to keep a blind eye on what's happening, if har da gasken aure zai Kara show him I'd support him in every situation besides ba aikin haram zaiyi ba, I know it's hard but ki dage ki nuna mishi u are with him in biki ya tashi ki taya shi komai, I bet u budurwa ce zata fara Jin haushin ki, makirci is the key my sister, show him u love her more than him Sai ku zauna lafiya, and marks my words am sure she can't bear that, zata rika complain, and that is going to be their first problem. Allah ya baki hakurin jurewa��
ReplyDeleteAllah sarki i feel you dear.
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