shi na miji dan baby ne, koman girmanshi, kudin shi ko milkinshi.
tsaf mace me wayo take kama miji da ta juya shi a hannu se yadda ta yi dashi!!!
First of all you must be smart!!! no body wants wawiya as a wife!
be exciting kar da ya dawo gida ki hau mita kina complaining. greet him with the biggest smile ko da ba kya jin yi!!!
this has always worked for me. ana son ki da fara'a. smile like you life depends on it!!!
this would show him that you appreciate him and you missed him!!!
In kika saba hakan to walahi every day he would look forward to coming home saboda smile dinki da appeciation.
2. Be your husband's biggest supporter ko da ideas dinshi are crap!!! it depends what kind of husband you have, I have a sane husband so i don't need much work in this department. But akwai very adventurous husbands, yau suna so suyi wannan gobe they have changed their minds and they want to do something else!!!!
ai biye mishi za kiyi, ya na fada kina cewa "a walahi!!!" se ya gama maganar har ya manta se ki mishi magana on how its not the best of ideas. never say its a bad idea when he is high on Adrenalin. in kina kwatse shi, ze tsane ki.
3. laugh at his jokes. see my husband is the least funny person i know, his jokes are dry and if he wasn't my husband even smile no go comot, but you know what? when he cracks his jokes i laugh like there is no tomorrow!!! he has some silly dance he does and when ever he does it he looks at me to see if its amused me!!! trust me to laugh har da hawaye.
4.praise your husband,
once in a while I would switch off the lights lay on the floor and talk. no phone no distractions. I tell him how lucky i am to have him!!! the first time he liked it but didn't say much, but by the 3rd time he talked and now told me how lucky he was too for marrying me!!! see i cracked him open!!!
you want appreciation then appreciate first!!!
kunsan maroka yadda suke praising mutum, toh haka nake praising alhajin gidan mu!!! from hallitar sa, to halinsa, to every thing about him. se nayi noticing that he became nicer because yasan in na zo praising dinsa zan tuna da the latest kindness he did and mention it!!! lol see mumu botton right there!!!
5. depending on the type of person you are married to, wani abinci be dame shi ba, wani kuma ciki ya kawo duniya!!!
which ever one you have please never play with abincin miji.
you know dai your husband's plates and cutlery are different da na yan gida.
make sure you finish cooking on time. ni miji na in yana jin yunwa ko jin magana ba ya yi, dan haka kan ya dawo daga office anyi setting table.
in ba ke kike abincin ba please make sure you tatse it, is the salt ok, ko se an gyara.
6. KU HAUKATA JUNA A BED ROOM
i will emancipate on this gobe ISA but this is one of the most important points on getting his mumu button
still waiting for part two.....
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