TARBIYAR SOCIAL MEDIA!!!

I have a 3 year old baby and he is the center of my universe. walahi ALLAH in his infinite mercy made him so perfect, its unbelievable. his smile melts my heart, he looks just like my husband that i love so freaking much. They have same smile and same big head lol not that i'm complaining.

When he cries, i get emotional its crazy, i have never felt this way in my life. its crazy.
some times kawai kallon shi zan yi i get teary eyed saboda kauna!!!
(i am in trouble)
lol

ko in ce we are in trouble.
so last week we went to a gathering and all my sisters were together with all the kids and something happened.
my mom gave us the lecture of our lives.
" girls i know how ALLAH is testing this generation da son yaran su. its good don't get me wrong, i love the amazing connecttion you have with your kids. ALHAMDULLILLAH.
but have you noticed at this very young age your children are manipulating you. you show them so much love it pathetic. oh you think we didnt love you,  but we put that aside and trained you to what the society would acept. what you are doing now (tarbiya ) is the most pathetic thing i have ever seen in my life and it bothers me.
your child that talks is still wearing diaper at 4, he wouldnt greet visitors yet you just smile away and say oh he is having a tantrum. tantrum my foot!!
#mommy clam down.ah
dont tell me to calm down she continued.
yara duk ba tarbiya and you call it love. every thing he wants he gets every single thing, musamman mata. you keep giving them evry single thing ba fada ba kwaba, i am not saying beat your children but have standards. let them know sunyi lefi,  haka za a je a ta sako muku yaran ku saboda ba tarbiya.
train your children for the world.
ance ka so naka duniya ta ki shi.
tarbiya starts tun yaro be shekara ba.
yaro ze cije ki a nono ya ga reaction din ki, the mumu you would just smile back,
frown and make sure he knows that is wrong.
tarbiya se an daure ku daure
dan ALLAH ni ba haka na muku ba walahi.
and you know it.
yanzu yara ba su san eye language ba.  ana magana suna sa baki
kai you people have to work on this wo coz za ku wahala.
kuna musu tarbiya social media!

we finished and i went back home
ina ta tunani driving back home
my mum is absolutly right.
our generation needs help

If your mom is still alive, ko wata anty you are close too please call her and let her teach you karya ne you wouldnt be able to do it, we have allowed turawa infiltrate our brains via TV and social media.
they have changed our mind set to a poit that we think things we do are normal.
no lets reset mu koma gargajiya!