AREWA TROPHY WIFE!!!!! WAKE UP

 

Arewa trophy wife wake up!!
so yes this is the best place to be. amazing life, beautiful cars, and hefty monthly allowance!!!
wayyo what a life.
we all envy!
like i keep saying its better to cry a cikin marsandi dan to cry a keke napep or worse, a kafa wato legedis benz!!!
but my sister wake up! today!
life has unexpected turns and irin life din nan might actually not last for ever!
ke lets say ma it lasts. Are you not bored, kina gida masu aiki ko mai ki ke so su miki za a  miki saboda tsabar gata,  but kullum kika tashi ba purpose! ba drive. ki ta nusar kiba kina cika wuri!
jokes aside. shi ke nan kuma boredom galore!
last year i took a couple of months off work and i will tell you its the worst time of my life. the first week was amazing i slept!

2nd week too but by the 3rd i was bored and was ready to just go back to work.
i feel duk ranar da na tashi ba buri, i die a little inside! Ance an ideal mind is the devil's workshop! yai ta miki sake sake!
so yes you have to get something doing!
something to look forward to every day!
ENTRENUERSHIP!! ko da non profit ne!
you have an upper hand my dear as you have millions at your disposal
do you know how people struggle to get funding? ke fa the millionaire is your bed mate!!!
you can afford to be the best fashion designer, coz you would be able to get the best staff ke ko dubai za ki iya dauko tailors karshe ma ke nan. ke your whole production could be in china! a manufacturing firm at your disposal!
you can afford to get consultants and can make your dream a reality.
lets say you want to go into beauty (makeup) you can create your own product  all it takes is go to china!
ke you can start your own brand of ankara!!!
ke in your position ko walahi se dai baki yi magana ba

so lets come to the down side, life isn't stable, ALLAH na tuba yau ina karuna!
abin ALLAH ya sawake akwai karayar aziki and then akwai mutuwa. all these are ALLAH’s tests!
akwai wani labari da na taba ji
there was this man wealthy man da ya aura wata yarinya as 3rd wife,
ai bayan auren se ki rantse be taba aure ba, this guy ya bi ya canza,
sune landan, gobe jamus!
all over the place having the times of there lives.
His 2 wives dama suna can gida ita kadai ce a Abuja!
komai lafiya kalau zan zan life was amazing!
Har ALLAH ya bata haihuwa!
yaron nan yadda kika san shi kadai ya haifa!
yaran shi 20 that was the 21st
any who!!!
Ana cikin tafiya se ALLAH ya jarab ce shi da illness ba ba a san kanta ba!
ba inda ba aje ba neman magani, ke after wards aka fara na gida!
and one useless malam now said its this his amarya that did the sammu!
kawai Alhaji ya bi ya tsane ta!
and she had to take care of him coz the other wives refuse to take turns.
When he was healthy we didn't see him se yanzu.
no please mun yafe!
toh my sister garin neman magani, money kept depleting
and trust my hausa sister there was no savings. duk abin da ya bata over the years ta sa a gaba ta cinye!
kuma akan banza da hofi!
To cut the long story short,
the husband ciwo yayi ciwo, rai yayi halinsa!

matan shi da  kwan su da kwarkwatan su, suka taho daga gida suka zaman makoki a Abuja! 
ana zuwa first wife ta sa aka bude mata dakin miji anan take karbar gaisuwa.
my hausa sister kept saying ai ba komai its just a few days za su tafi!
ke ana na bayin ALLAH su ka ki tafiya!
garadan yaran sa su ka mayar da palour wurin kwana!
rayuwa ta canza!
ke to cut the long story short walahi se barin ogidan tayi!
with no savings now she is looking for a job!!!
if only she knew!
if only she saved.
if only if only!
da na sani keya ce

toh this woman ma da sauki tana da yaro , and at least in aka raba gado she would get some thing substantial!
But imagine you don't have kids kinman kowa da jarabawar shi!
shi ke nan in an miki adalci, a baki tuminin takabar ki da wuri kuma nan da nan abaki notice ki bar gida dan ya zama na magada!!!
its the sad truth!

but what if you saved or you are a bubbling entrepreneur ana cewa yaU za ki tashi daga gida dan an samu masu siya, kawai cewa zakiyi how much, sun fada ki ce masu za su ga alert!

Life doesn't have to change!!
but you have to stand up!

bottom line save for a rainy day, and ki samu abin yi!
the 2nd hand value of Hermes bag isn't that great lol!!

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