Ta juyo ta kalle shi sama da kasa, ta buga masa harara, sannan ta ja tsaki!
Ganin haka, saurayin sai ya ce. "haba yan mata. Daga cewa "excuse me, can I have a word with you please" sai ya zama abin fitina kuma?
Sai tace da shi "do I look like your class da za ka tunkare ni? Ni ba sa'arka bace, ok? Go and look for your mates small boy!.
Sai saurayi ya girgiza kai yayi murmushi. Ya juwa yayi tafiyar sa while he pondered over how a simple question, could've resulted to such a harsh response.
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Over and over, scenarios such as the one painted above have occurred and continue to occur a arewa. A young man comes across a lady he is interested in, musters enough courage, walks up to her to get to know her and try his luck, only for him to be vehemently rebuffed. Na fight? Since when has it become a crime to toast or "chyke" a babe again? If I no toast you, how I wan take know you?
Although there are exceptions where some guys can be rude and knowing fully well that in some cases, the first lines that ooze out of a guy's mouth can be a big turn off for ladies, but believe me most often than note, great opportunities are lost when ladies make it a habit to turn down guys in such manner. Wani lokacin ma, a guy isn't even desirous of a relationship. All he might want, is simply to be friends or just have a good conversation for that particular moment. Like you don't expect me to walk into a restaurant everyday and only ask for white rice abi. Some days, I might be in the mood for tuwon shinkafa da miyar kuka. It works that way too for some of us when it comes to walking up to ladies. And the irony about all this is, you hear the ladies complaining about shortage of good men or "mazan sun ki zuwa", forgetting that for every one that you have bounced, there are a dozen that you've blocked the way for with such an attitude.
Look, I am not saying that you should be a mother Theresa and entertain every iro, dan tani and danladi fa, but sometimes, learn to be patient and understand the motive first, before unleashing the cruella in you. Besides, na just toasting. It's fun!
Yawwa. Speaking of toasting, why is it hard for matan mu na arewa to toast guys sef?
Written by mallam alee ameen.
picture credit. bella naija, Artilary
picture of beautiful mimaloso just because it fits the topic -ta juyo lol
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